I am going to start by saying my child is so full of expression and sass and has been from day one! Our whole first year was crazy, watching him grow and learn new things every day. From rolling over to sitting up to trying real food! The whole time mind you we were getting sounds from him that just radiated sass, almost as if he were too good to be dealing with our shenanigans. I loved every minute of it, even when my PPD tried to tell me I didn’t. Slowly but surely Lane became Alex’s best bud, even now and its the cutest thing to see. During his 1st year we moved to an apartment in the middle of May, sadly the air conditioning had gone out the second we moved and we had a baby living in a 90 degree apartment.. ( we live in the south, humidity is everything!) we ended up uprooting once again to stay with a relative so he wouldn’t over heat. The management company wasn’t in a huge hurry to get things fixed so this lasted for over a week, but baby man kept us in our spirits, always giggling always doing something, crawling around fast as his little legs would let him. Finally we got to settle in. What a relief. Now to continue with our lives. Alex was working full time and I had just started a new part time gig. It was nice, it allowed time with bubba and time away. ( Don’t lie, sometimes a day away is nice). The next few months Lane really picked up his crawling and really started to try to stand, those little wobbly legs just didn’t allow it. We began to think he would never walk!! Irrational I know but, we were new to this, we had know idea. Finally when he was approx. 11 months old he WALKED all by himself all the way across our living room! We were so excited, we felt like he was winning gold at the olympics! But oh boy we were not prepared for what that meant.. No turning around and going back, our little baby was on the run all of the time, always yammering about something and always going on journeys. Which led to no more sitting down for more than a minute for mommy and daddy! It also meant that at his birthday party he got to “chase” everyone he could see. Which leads us to the end of our first year with Lane Alexander. My once small sweet crying baby, was well on his way to a stinky,sticky toddler that I loved/love so much. Even his little baby feet were getting stinky, but that’s a story for a different post. I hope I haven’t lost you yet.. Stay tuned:)
Author: Dustin michelle Brooks
The Beginning!
It started in 2015, April to be exact. I had met my husband, and as cliche as it sounds, the second I saw this man.. well I just knew he was it. Apparently the feeling was mutual We were engaged that August! Shortly after the engagement we moved in together. We had the world going for us and we couldn’t be stopped! I loved this man more and more each day i knew him. It was like we had known each other our whole lives. We married that following October in 2016. The wedding was beautiful! Soon after in December, we found out we were expecting!!! I was terrified, and I later found out that Alex was too but he hid it well for me the whole time, and let me tell you that pregnancy was awful! I had HG (hyperemesis gravidarum) otherwise known as 24/7 sickness. Even changing my diet and on prescribed medication I stayed sick up until delivery. Which in of itself was almost catastrophic. My wonderful blessing was 9lbs 3oz and wonderfully healthyon his arrival date in September! Mommy on the other hand almost bled out during the birth. I don’t even truly remember the last half of it, when I blacked out. I awoke several hours later and finally had the chance to hold the baby boy I had longed for in my dreams. We immediately attempted to breast feed but alas there was no success, no amount of coaching from the nurses or my mom helped, bubba just couldn’t latch. I felt like a failure. I felt like my body let me down, like maybe i wasn’t meant to be a momma to this boy.. after the 3 day stay in the hospital we discovered that little man had colic, I had it when I was a baby and i guess he was taking after me. Let me just tell you that through all of this Alex was such a dang trooper! Not one time did he complain about helping me while recovery, not one time did he say he was exhausted ( like I knew he was). He was there all through the night for every feeding, every diaper change, every bath! Watching him be a daddy to this little boy made my heart swell and love him more! The next few months of our lives were chaotic, we were dealing with colic, with my PPD and PPA, we were dealing with me trying to go back to work. We survived though. We made it through all of the beginner parental mistakes we all make! So let me fast forward a little bit to our big move! That’ll be in my next write:) I hope you’ll read that too
My First Blog Post
Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
This is the first post on my new blog. I’m just getting this new blog going, so stay tuned for more. Subscribe below to get notified when I post new updates.
Introduce Yourself (Example Post)
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